You cannot get there in a hurry!
I know our attention space has decreased from 12 seconds in
2007 to 8 seconds in 2013!
Does that affect relationship building?
When I was running a Weight Loss/Wellness Business,
my twins, from time to time,( 7 years at the time),
would run around the scale in a bid to lose weight.
After a few rounds, each would step on the scale and exclaim,
“Oh no”! Its still the same!
The bigger sisters would stare at them in amusement, asking
“What are both you doing?”
“We are losing weight!” they wound pant back.
Funny little people!
Well, sometimes we expect our relationships to be microwaved
in a few minutes.
We need to save time…”Well not in relationship building
(yes, depending on what type it is).
So, let us
1.Build connections deliberately(not facebook type)
2. Let us listen and observe
3. Let us respond to the relationship rhythm and allow the
4.Let us grow through the conversations, interactions, conflict
5.Allow the process of time, the deliberateness of growth and the reason why
to build in the foundation of trust, acceptance and connectivity.
Watch out for our Attract To Keep Newsletter… in May!
Bringing you news, information, tips and tools to accelerate healthy connections and build stable marriages!
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PSS: My new book, Beyond Sexual Attraction is available!
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PSSS: Well, just here our microwave story ends, and real strategy to build enduring and stable relationships begins.